Start with MOE’s counselling and student welfare page. It explains support from School Counsellors for personal or academic challenges and Student Welfare Officers for welfare-related needs. To find the route for your own school, ask a trusted teacher or contact the school office.
Explain the concern in everyday terms: what has become difficult, how long it has been happening and what support you hope to discuss. You do not need to arrive with a polished explanation. Ask how a student or parent can arrange a conversation, who will respond and what the next step might be.
Did you know an academic concern may include more than the subject itself? A student may want help discussing confidence, relationships or coping with school demands. Begin with the experience the student describes, then let the school explain which support route fits. Counselling, learning support and subject teaching have different roles.
On this page: official sources · practical checks · your next step
Official sources at a glance
| Question | Official starting point | What to check |
|---|---|---|
| What does school support include? | MOE counselling and welfare guide | Relevant school support route |
| How can I request a conversation? | Your school’s teacher or office | Contact person and appointment process |
| How is help-seeking supported? | MOE counselling-practices reply | School’s current arrangements |
| Is the concern about learning access? | Mainstream learning-support guide | Discuss the appropriate support team |
Practical checks before you act
Prepare two or three concrete examples, if that feels manageable. You might describe what happens before school, during a particular lesson or when the student tries to begin work. The purpose is to explain the concern clearly, not to prove that it meets a threshold.
Let the student describe the experience in their own words. A parent can offer observations too, but the student’s account matters. Ask the school how the conversation will be arranged and how parents may be involved where appropriate.
Ask about confidentiality and its limits before assuming how information will be shared. The school can explain its process, the people involved and circumstances in which others may need to help. Do not promise a child that everything will remain secret.
Keep the first goal small: making contact, understanding the available support and agreeing on the next conversation. Avoid turning the request for help into another performance task. A short, clear message is enough to start an enquiry.
If the concern also involves learning difficulties, ask how the relevant staff can coordinate. Subject teaching may help with understanding a topic, while another support route may address the wider difficulty. Let the school explain the roles instead of assuming one service will solve every part.
Your next step
Contact the school through its official channel and ask how to arrange a conversation about the concern. Note the responding person and the agreed next step, then follow up if the expected response has not arrived.
For wider decisions about learning and future routes, our education and career guidance source guide points to a separate set of official resources. Use the source that matches the question you need help with.
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Official sources reviewed: 10 October 2026. Recheck current award, school and application-cycle instructions before acting.
