Quick Answer
Parents help language development most effectively when they improve the quality of interaction rather than constantly increasing instruction. Five useful moves are: model clear language, wait long enough for a response, expand what the child says, recast important errors without interrupting the message, and gradually fade prompts as independence grows.
What This Page Owns
This page owns parent interaction behaviour. It is not a list of worksheets or vocabulary games. The focus is how adults respond during ordinary talk, reading and homework.
The MWERF Framework
| Move | Example | Why it helps |
|---|---|---|
| Model | “The path is slippery because it rained.” | Provides a usable language pattern |
| Wait | Pause after asking | Gives retrieval and planning time |
| Expand | Child: “Dog wet.” Parent: “Yes, the dog is soaking wet.” | Adds vocabulary and syntax without rejecting the message |
| Recast | Child: “He goed.” Parent: “Yes, he went home early.” | Models the correction naturally |
| Fade | Move from sentence frame to keyword to no prompt | Transfers control to the child |
Use One Move at a Time
If a child is struggling to produce an idea, modelling may help. If the child knows the idea but answers slowly, wait. If the message is understandable but simple, expand. If one error matters, recast it. If the child can already perform with support, fade it.
Three Everyday Applications
- Shared reading: model one interpretation, wait for the child’s view, expand a useful phrase, then ask for a retell without prompts.
- Dinner conversation: ask one open question, follow the answer, add one richer word and return the turn.
- Homework: narrow the problem with a prompt, then reduce help on the next item.
What to Avoid
- Correcting every sentence.
- Answering your own question after one second.
- Turning expansion into a long lecture.
- Leaving scaffolds in place after the child no longer needs them.
- Praising complexity when the language is inaccurate or unnatural.
Measure Independence
Every two weeks, repeat a similar task with less help. Count the number of prompts needed, the quality of explanation and whether the child repairs some errors independently. Good parental support should eventually make itself less necessary.
Research and Further Reading
- Harvard Center on the Developing Child: responsive interaction
- EEF vocabulary modelling
- EEF oral language interventions
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